Have you ever felt like surrendering? Like no matter how hard you work, life is pushing you down? Because if so, you’re not alone. We know we love resilience in others, but it appears unreachable in our crisis. You should know that we all experience setbacks in our lives, and what we do in response to them defines where we are headed. Internal resilience, patience, self-compassion, and the desire to persevere are required.

But the truth is that resilience is not a personality type—it’s a skill, and everyone can learn it. Robin Group demonstrates just that in “Rise Above the Flames,” a heartwarming story of perseverance and finding strength in the unlikeliest of places. With common ground and tragic experiences, the book illustrates that success will likely arise from our ultimate challenges. Our belief that we can build resiliency reframes how we approach life adversity.

Life’s challenges will always exist. Rather than running from them, face them head-on. Each challenge allows us to become more resilient. We can only unlock our strength and potential when faced with adversity. Getting comfortable with being uncomfortable can call us to places we would never have envisioned.

Even the strongest person needs care and support. We don’t manage or handle things alone all the time. Friends, family, and mentors can provide you with solace and the support and guidance you require when times become tough. A support network is the most important aspect of developing steadiness; it reminds us that we are not isolated. Seeking support can ease the load and light our paths ahead.

Life is unpredictable, but your thoughts and behavior are always yours to control. Redirect your energy from what is not working to what you can do differently. Redirecting helps us regain control and motivates us to move through challenging times. A proactive stance can open new possibilities and avenues we had not previously explored.

It’s the resilience that transforms pain into power. You may be looking hard for strength; Rise Above the Flames by Robin Group is a positive reminder that hope can never be lost despite all the misery. Let the book be your mentor as you traverse the downs and ups of life, informing you that toughness and hope bring you ultimate victory. Note that every fire you rise above will be your beacon of victory and evidence of your toughness.